My Wife and Her Friend

Laurie and I have known each other for 15 years. Started dating when my ex wife was out of town with three of my kids, and she (ex) hadn't had sex with me for nine years. Hadn't slept in the same bed with me for seven. She (ex) broke her ankle and just started sleeping on the couch, even after it had healed. It was 'more comfortable.' Anyway, I digress.

Over the 15 years, I've met a million of Laurie's friends, be them friends from high school, co-workers, or customers. Never have I ever been attracted to any of them.

Until about a year ago. She introduced me to a woman who was a customer of hers. I had come down to her store one Saturday morning and met this woman. The first thing I said to her (because Laurie had been talking about her with me for a few weeks/months) was "Laurie didn't tell me you were gorgeous." She laughed. What I don't think that she knew at the time, I was being serious.

Over the next year, I would see her occasionally if I was at the store at the same time. Met her kids, etc.

One of the first things Laurie asked me after I first met her was "What do you think of X?" I said "She's quite beautiful. I find her quite attractive." I think Laurie was taken aback a little bit. I'd never said that about anyone else. So from then on, she would say to me "So, you have feelings for X?" The first time she said it "I said yes, actually. But I would never do anything with her, without you being involved." I've found that honesty is the best policy.

She said to me "I will bow out if you want to pursue her." I said "I don't want to leave you. I'm happy here. I wouldn't mind if we pursued her together, as a threesome type situation." Laurie said that she was attracted to X, but wasn't sure she could go there, unless X pursued her first.

I said "Well, I would never leave you Laurie. But to me, X is quite alluring and I'd love if we would pursue something together, if that ever became a possibility."

As time went on, we never talked about pursuing X again. Laurie would, on occasion, mention my attraction to X, but never as a group activity type situation.

Do I find X attractive still? Yes. She is probably one of the sexiest women I have ever met. She has a personality that is off the charts. Very easy to talk to. I've never spoken to X about my attraction to her. I'm actually pretty sure she has NO idea that I'm attracted to her, which is fine.

I would never pursue her without Laurie. I would never do anything to hurt X, her kids, or Laurie. If I was to pursue something with X, it would be with Laurie, and it would be so that all three of us got satisfaction from the situation. Never individually.

I know my weaknesses. I know my strengths. I like to take care of people. I like to please. I would love to give X a long sensual massage.

Start with her on her stomach, and spend quite a bit of time giving her a sensual massage. Once that was done, and she was relaxed, I would have her roll over. I would work on her front, start from her neck down. When I got to her toes, I would massage her feet. Then, with her (and Laurie's) permission, I would work my way up the inside of her left leg. Kissing my way up to her waist. Slowly. Methodically. When I got to the promised land, I would just keep moving up her body. I love boobs. She looks to have some amazing breasts. I'm hopeful she has long nipples that liked to be sucked. Once I spend time there for a while, I'll work my way back down the right side, the inside of her right leg down to her toes. At that point, we will see where we are. If she is game (and if she AND Laurie agree), I will work on giving her a happy ending (or three or four) to her massage. Do I need reciprocation? Absolutely not. This is about pleasuring her (and Laurie). Not me.

Laurie is not bisexual. She's kissed women in the past, usually when she is at a party and had too much to drink. I know (believe?) X is bisexual. I think if X came on to Laurie, then things might progress in a good way.

The last thing I would ever want to do is lose the friendship that X & Laurie, and by extension X & I, have.

But, grand scheme of things, I don't know if X would be interested in that type of situation. I don't know if she would be interested at ALL in either of us.

My question is, how do I proceed? Do I proceed?

But a guy can dream, yes?