Talking Erotica with my new GF

Talking Erotica with a New Girlfriend.

I mentioned to my new girlfriend that when I was horny, like after a week or more without sex, that I have written some erotica. She suggested that I bring some stories to her; that's pretty erotic in itself.

Let me give you a little background. We had known each other for about a year, mostly because of working out at Tri-Fit classes, but I had seen her perform, playing oboe, even before that and I had been attracted to her right away. She had been aware that I had both a wife and a girlfriend during those months, and also that the girlfriend hadn't been around in recent months. She asked me about my wife, thinking that she had died, so I got to explain how my wife was in a care center with advanced Alzheimer's disease. I wanted to make sure that she knew my situation before I asked her on a date, as this could certainly be a cause of concern. I learned about her husband dying around three years previously, from dementia and other conditions. It was clear that we had something to talk about, so I suggested coffee together.

I messaged her to set up a date, and offered breakfast at my place as an option; she accepted and said she'd bring muffins. It's pretty erotic to have a beautiful, sexy lady agree to meet me at my own home, rather than insist on a public place. We ended up talking for four hours, and really got to know each other. She invited me to her place for dinner just a few days later.

I got to see her place and tour her house, her guest cottage, her art studio, and the grounds, plus meet her grandson who is staying with her for the summer. We continued to make connections and learn more about each other. We made plans to dine at my place on Thursday evening and to go to the Cars & Coffee meet-up on Saturday morning, and then attend "Singing in the Rain" on Saturday evening. I messaged her later that I thought we should talk about our relationship on Thursday evening, she responded that she was thinking the same thing! Pretty erotic.

Thursday evening came and she brought romantic music and I made shrimp saganaki with brown rice and Cole slaw. We talked about our relationship and agreed that we both want to continue and expand; I suggested that we set a date for this and she thought that sex should be more spontaneous. She made it clear that she was seriously considering staying overnight, and had even brought her toothbrush! (So much for spontaneity!). I was actually the one suggesting caution; I wanted to make sure that she wouldn't regret it later, I wasn't looking for a one-night stand. Anyway, this was extremely erotic.

This was our third date, nine days after our first date, so rather erotic that we were moving so fast. Being naked together and experiencing sexual pleasure for the first time together was super erotic. I rubbed, sucked, pulled and twisted her nipples. I performed oral sex on her, then played with her pussy with my fingers, checking for juices; which lead me to use some lubricant and further checking. She rubbed, and then sucked on my dick, then insisted that I enter her.

We discovered that I couldn't penetrate her; that her vaginal opening was not large enough for my penis. Now she hadn't had sex for something like 20 years so she's really concerned that there's something medically wrong, and I'm concerned for her. But looking at it from my, a guy's, perspective, it's pretty erotic to be told that your dick is too big, especially since I'm sure my dick is only about average, for a white guy. What an ego booster! We cuddled and otherwise continued our erotic encounter for literally hours, finally allowing ourselves to drift off to sleep.

We took my car to both the Cars & Coffee show and the musical. This was our first public appearance together and we encountered a lot of people that we knew, so there were a lot of introductions. It's nice, even somewhat erotic, to be introduced as a "friend" when it's clearly going to be interpreted as "lover."

She read the two erotica pieces that I had sent her; she said they were well written but did not arouse her. She said that thinking about me, and what we had done together was erotic to her. That's when I decided to write this. I was hoping that writing down our story and her having the opportunity to re-read it would be erotic and arouse her.

We had dinner at her house that evening and then proceeded to the musical, then came back to my house. We had some drinks and dessert, and I played a couple of songs on my harmonica to show her the kind of music I play, then went to the bedroom. We were both experimenting with each other to learn what they like (and/or dislike, but didn't find much that way; we both seemed to like everything). We especially tried to evaluate the "tight" vagina, experimenting with fingers and such, also very erotic. My finger fit her without any pain and I could arouse her that way for quite a while, although she did not reach orgasm. Two fingers was not achievable without pain.

The most erotic thing ever came next. She was so concerned about me, about my not having an orgasm, that she insisted on giving me oral sex, a blowjob, all the way to an orgasm, even though she was not able to experience an orgasm herself! What a woman; what a sexpot! Unbelievably erotic!!!