Jeff's Story: CFNM Lover Submitting

Jeff's Story: Mutual Benefits of CFNM Cum From Cautious Exploration

True story as told to PattyJune500

"I can't believe we just had an older nude guy here who waited on us all evening and stroked off for us," said Shane, a 23-year-old chubby blond and blue-eyed woman. She was attractive like Rubenesque glamour model.

Her roommate, Becca, also 23 years old, brunette with green eyes, knew what she wanted to see in this Clothed Female Naked Male (CFNM) scenario, slapped her roommate on the back and said, "I didn't believe you when you said this guy would do it. I loved seeing his trim body and hard dick. What I enjoyed the most was looking into his eyes while he was jerking for us." Becca had an expressive face, lively smile, and was a little overweight but in an appealing way.

The naked male -- Jeff -- had the most to lose yet he wanted to be with these women and to serve them. From early years of his youth, he respected women and looked for ways to be subservient and helpful to what society then dubbed the "fairer sex."

Yet, after being with the younger girls for the evening, he felt a strong sense of satisfaction from serving them nude and having them ogle him, ask for him to clean the house, cook for them, serve beverages, and eventually jerk off to completion. While the girls laughed, clapped, and cajoled Jeff during his performance.

How did he feel? He knew from the words of the ladies that they found him to be cute, but they also viewed him as pathetic. The girls would also make lewd and racy comments about his body in front of him, almost as if he didn't understand English. He was totally objectified by the experience.

The ladies made fun of his dancing -- not Jeff's strong suit. Jeff felt more comfortable being nude than having to dance. All of the girls noticed this and started instructing him how to dance, which made him more self-conscious. At one point, one of the girls just -- out of the blue -- yelled out "On your feet and dance boy!"

The two women made him hump the couch (covered by a towel) with his erect dick while they circled looking for the best angles to ogle his nudity. Throughout the evening, the women stopped and started his stroking of his cock offering a start and stop process to finally cumming. Jeff was asked to ejaculate into a glass from which he later drank his sperm.

All involved were very impressionable and had diverse reasons for getting involved in tonight's gathering at the girls' home.

Being an advocate of CFNM, both sexes face challenges to satisfy their sexual thirsts. Exploration and cautious behavior rule us.

Shane, Becca and Jeff wanted to have a good time in a safe environment and through a common bond -- CFNM interests. The trio agreed to ground rules that allowed them to cautiously explore this dimension of their sex lives.

What happened, happened, and all parties can take their respective learnings and go their own ways.

Or, in the case of these three, Jeff agreed to a second session with Shane and Becca and one of their other girlfriends named Kelly. Kelly was closer to Jeff's age, and she really wanted to see how far she and her friends could push submissive Jeff.

Each time visiting the private home where they met, Jeff, gave his identification (keys and wallet) and clothing to the women to lock up out of his sight. Jeff was required to strip outside in the middle of a Texas winter while the women watched intently and knocked on the window with reactions to his full nudity.

He was naturally scared and helpless, not sure if the girls would invite him to stay or take advantage of his submissive actions. Would a boyfriend be lurking in the wings to beat him up or was this just to be cautious? Nonetheless, he wanted to be used by these young attractive women, and he put up with their demands.

Luckily, the ladies saw Jeff's true nature and did not feel threatened. Instead, they saw a man a few years older than them who was willing to give up his ID and his clothing to feed his desire for female companionship and a meaningful CFNM experience.

That meant stripping full nude, waiting on the women, following their orders, dancing, then jacking off and cumming for them. Jeff admits that he was able to create experiences that were all about him being objectified while, at the same time, the evenings were erotic with boundaries.

Jeff and the women craving a naked man serving them set agreed-upon rules:

· Arrange meeting by phone or chat line.

· Hand over personal information in a plastic bag.

· Undress outside and wait to be ushed inside.

· Clean, cook, mix and serve beverages.

· Agree to be bossed around by one or more women.

· Upon command, play with oneself and jerk off to completion.

· Leave when instructed with no objection.

The girls were first connected to Jeff by telephone. Shane knew right away Jeff was into CFNM, Femdom and Domination. He didn't have to bring it up later or have it come out in circular conversations.

Shane enjoyed the idea of bossing around a 27-year-old guy, so this went fast from their early conversations. She told Jeff about Becca, who was listening in on the calls and asking questions to pose to Jeff. Both girls were very intrigued with Jeff and that excited him, feeling their approval and consent right away.

Jeff didn't have to persuade them for a meet up. They wanted to get together that evening, but it did not work out for Jeff, so they postponed it for a night.

The next day Jeff was really nervous and afraid the ladies might come to their senses and change their minds. But they confirmed through another phone call.

Shane called me around 4 p. m. and the girls wanted Jeff to show up at 8 p. m. It was dark, cold and during the winter.

He traveled 30 miles to their home, parked and handed over a plastic bag with his identity and clothing. Becca took it all and locked them in her car, which he couldn't identify.

Jeff wore a suit and tie to meet the girls, and he also brought a bottle of vodka for them on his first visit. He tried handing the liquor to Shane, but she would not take it. She insisted that he kneel and present the vodka to the girls.

Jeff had met one on one with other women for the cooking, cleaning, jerking off drill but this experience was much different.

Most times he didn't do a repeat experience with someone because he felt it created an awkwardness for both parties. From his perspective, the dynamic of two female roommates felt safer in a way: definitely for the girls. Jeff liked the feeling in the strength of being dominated by two women. These particular ladies were more confident and less empathetic to their male nude toy, which was very exciting for Jeff because he felt like a piece of meat in their company.

As the night progressed, it was expected that Jeff would not only exhibit himself but jack off for the turned on devious young women. As Jeff stroked himself, the girls would laugh, clap and occasionally make incentive remarks about his body as if he wasn't there or could not understand English. However, he found the eye contact with the women to be enticing. He said that when Becca became entranced in his jerking, their eyes met and Shane snapped, showing a bit of jealously in the moment.

Jeff found the evening to be very exciting. He felt an immediate connection to Becca rather than the more dominant Shane. Jeff admits that at times he would melt in Becca's stares and gazes. He didn't with Shane. However, he did follow most orders from Shane as she was more assertive.

On the first visit, he was there for two hours. He cleaned their kitchen and bathroom, scrubbing tiles and mopping and cleaning the toilet, etc. He periodically mixed cocktails with vodka. Nude and obedient Jeff was in the girls' sight the entire time.

Both women would remark on his body. Jeff says he was slender but muscular in a natural way. Recreational hockey kept in good shape. Throughout the cleaning, Shane and Becca would occasionally tell him to drop a cleaning tool and start jerking off. Then, abruptly they would instruct him to stop and go back to cleaning.

The girls treated Jeff as if he was beneath them -- that they could and did make fun of me for what I was, their bitch. While it was fun for them, the ladies' felt Jeff was a freak -- a harmless pervert. They even had him worshipping their feet and eating his pre-cum. To Jeff, he sensed the girls felt above him now and would forever. He says it was amazingly hot thing for him.

On to Jeff's second encounter with Shane and Becca. This time it included Kelly, a female hairdresser closer to Jeff's age, with a steady boyfriend who knew of the encounter. Kelly was 25 or 26 years of age, and she may have been high school friends with Shane and Becca.

Kelly was the more dominant figure in the second gathering, which lasted at least three hours. Shane and Becca hung back and enjoyed the events as they unfolded. Jeff started with the girls but sometime during the evening Kelly spoke by phone with her boyfriend, and he came over. To take Jeff to the next level, the women asked and witnessed Jeff suck the cock and swallow the cum of Kelly's boyfriend. Before he started sucking, the girls asked him to kiss the boyfriend's cock and play with it. This would be the first time Jeff was faced with sucking off another guy.

Jeff admits that he was very aroused by such a power dynamic being out of his control. He says Kelly literally defined his sexuality, commanded his actions for 30 or minutes or so, and directed the blow job of her boyfriend in front of the girls. Jeff did it voluntarily. Kelly asked him multiple times before her boyfriend came over if he was okay with it. They all offered Jeff the opportunity to get dressed and leave before the boyfriend arrived.

That doesn't say he didn't have anxiety over the act at the moments leading to it and until that cock exploded in his face. Jeff got off on his true sexual anxiety during this moment.

Jeff contends the most erotic thing about that moment was that he was aware of his exposed fear in front of four super relaxed people watching his fear and enjoying it... not cruelly in a strict sense but in a playful way. While the female onlookers and boyfriend were very condescending, they were genuinely supportive of the show he was giving them and so appreciative that he went through it.

Our submissive guest didn't see it as they were taking advantage of him. The boyfriend was confident and even cocky, but perhaps that was easier due to the sexual climate created -- showing off with a naked man kneeling before a guy with his pants down that he'd never met before.

Jeff could tell Kelly was very turned on by his interaction with everyone but her boyfriend, who was overly bossy. His penis was smaller than Jeff's, but he slapped him in the face with it and shoved it into his mouth. Jeff noted that it felt fucking huge. All the lights were on in the room, so no detail of Jeff's humiliation went unnoticed by the boyfriend and three young women.

The women were praising the boyfriend's body and egging him on. Jeff believes it may have been because they knew him, or if this was instinctual of women to do that for a guy's ego. The boyfriend was asking for and getting compliments.

He even asked the girls about his penis, "What do you think of this. Pretty big huh?"

Kelly connected with Jeff in a very dominant way, and she dubbed him "Jack Off Jeff."

The girls led by Kelly bought him a blow-up doll, which they made him name, and he chose "Anjelina." He was made to dance in the nude with the doll and encouraged to fuck the doll twice that night before Kelly boyfriend came over and jizzed on him. Each time, he had to eat his own cum to finish the task.

After getting dressed and driving home, Jeff found he still had cum dried on his face. His reaction: he was still energized by the experience and found it to be so life-changing he masturbated all night thinking about the key moments of his domination.

The relationship with this crew was ended by Jeff after a few phone calls with Shane. Jeff felt his kneeling before a guy and blowing him was a major show of dominance and the group dynamic -- without Kelly -- would not be comfortable.

Jeff felt okay meeting after the first encounter. He didn't feel like they were his friends or that the first encounter was a bonding moment; however, he did feel like a sex worker but that turned him on too. It felt taboo and he let these virtual strangers control him in their presence. And he didn't even feel overwhelmed with lust for them but there were moments where their reactions and their attitudes turned him on.

All of Jeff's CFNM experiences started out with women he met online or over a phone chat line, so they weren't friends or associates. He agreed for no price to do tasks for the women, such as cleaning their homes in the nude or doing laundry or cooking a nice dinner for them. This offered both parties a sense of safety was very important it gave assurances to the women that they controlled the scene. Some of the women he met and performed for were attractive and others were not his type. Regardless, he always strived to be very conscientious of staying true to the CFNM experience.

Jeff wants women to be in control and objectify him. That is hard because society sees men as always being in control and we look down on those men who aren't in control. Men are rarely objectified, but most men won't admit they secretly want to lose control or be objectified like someone who can be manipulated, their bodies manipulated by a woman...

It is seen by many as a flaw in our culture and men oppress that need to be objectified and lose control to a being physically weaker than women. Guys like Jeff love to be dominated and put in compromising, humiliated situations. When he sees a petite woman walking a mastiff or Doberman, it excites him. He also finds women to be better managers and leaders.

Hopefully, we all understand CFNM has many dimensions and cautious exploration by both men and women offers mutual benefits and stimulation.