The Submissive Lady

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The submissive lady, that long to let go of control and responsibility. Even for few moments she looks forward to serving and being told what to do. I'm a daddy dom gentle caring authority. I enjoy the process to pleasure just as enjoyable if not more than the finish line. The process in my opinion never really stops. I view the teamwork and communication process outside the bedroom as key to the bedroom activities later. The little things, simple drive or helping with household chores can bring two people closer together.

The reason is doing stuff together involves listening and learning how each other handles tasks. Spending time together face to face, you hear a person tone of voice and see their body expressions. With time both learn how each other reacts to comments how they are stated. You learn how to bring out the best in each other and sadly the worst. You learn when to make a joke. When it's funny verses when it's not. This does mean work and commitment on the both of you.

This leads to dominate and submissive relationship. In my opinion in or outside of the lifestyle there is some form of someone leading and someone following. We all have our strength and weakness. You don't have to be into bdsm to enjoy little dominance. There are many happy couples who are not into the lifestyle. Some might add a little a dirty talk, but they wouldn't consider bdsm. What's important is knowing your partner. That takes time. People in the relationship do change and grow over time.

This is what makes your partner fun and hard to understand. That process keeps you sharp, even if you feel frustrated at times. You're not alone, we all go through times when things don't make sense.

One important part to bdsm is consent and communication. No one is truly being forced or being truly hurt. You always have the right to say no or stop. Good practice is having safe word. This is all about trust and respect. Both people need to feel safe in acting out their roles and responsibility.

I lean on lots of communication and going easy with someone. I find that women who are submissive and new prefer that. I understand the nervous feeling that little voice in your head. Will he respect my hard limits and stop when I need him to. Will he pay close attention to my hints. The answer from is yes. This is why I focus a lot of my energy on doing activities that don't include sex. This process should be fun for both. I still train without being a jerk about it.

When she is having fun serving and obeying you, she will serve you better. I keep the rules simple and easy to follow, this helps to avoid punishments that she agrees to do beforehand. Keeping all things safe and legal means more fun for the both of us.

The submissive will always say Sir and for punishment three spanks on the butt and will stop the session. Even if she enjoys the spanking, my point is made, follow the rules. I find denying her of pleasure is harder for them than some other punishment. What activities I enjoy with a submissive lady outside the bedroom.

Questions are always welcome. I do make time for them. This were having time to just share feelings. Likes, dislikes are helpful to me. This is where changes to the rules can change. I also include stop light method, submissive can say red meaning stop and yellow to say easy up, be keep going. I shared before no always mean no and finding agreement on rules is key.

I like to lead by example. I give my submissive permission to spank me, and I help with household chores. I never give an order that I wouldn't do myself. I also give easy task for her to obey. The type of tasks I start with, take off my shoes or get me my drink. Simple command shows a selfie at work. I will order her to do a foot and back massage. A hug and kiss before leaving for work and after work is done. As time goes by and we grow together. Growing together never stops there is always give and take in every relationship.

She stands up and slowly turns around. She wears something comfortable, no bra or panties. She lays in comfortable place and relaxes. She takes few deep breaths in and out. She repeats my words, I am pretty. I am enough. I am valuable. Then I remind her, you are all those things. She works hard and ok to take time out. Both men and women can be too harsh with themselves. Important to reflect that you're doing the best you can.

She Tightens her body for three seconds and relax. She does it, one more time. She is doing good job. Next, she tightens her butt for three seconds and relaxes. She does it again, one more time. Then she takes another deep breath in and let it out. She takes her hand and gently pinches her nipples for two seconds and relax. She runs her fingers pads down to her thighs and back up to her neck. No rush, no pressure. She is being in the moment. She doesn't get ahead of my commands or assume what I will say. She keeps touching and feeling herself. This should take five minutes, using her finger pads over her, beautiful body. She massages outside of her pussy between inside thighs and outer part of her pussy. She slowly works her hands all around and back up to her neck. Back down between her thighs.

She licks two special fingers suck on them for little bit. She slides fingers over the top to the opening. slowly parting the lower lips. Up and down opening every layer. Then insert finger little around moist hole. She rubs all sides of her clits. Small circles up and down. She keeps repeating again and again. She adds little more pressure and increases the pace. Nice and steady as she works all around the flower petals.

She focusses her motion on her clit, rubs each side, top and bottom. She keeps rubbing all sides of her clit. She is close and feeling the buildup. She asks permission. Say, Sir may I cum? She waits for my answer, one more minute pass and ask again. Say Sir may I cum? She waits little longer. She waits for my answer.

I give my permission she may cum. Cum for me. She says, thank you Sir. I tell her, she is very welcome. I praise her work and effort. I give her nice big hug for obeying. She must be tired and maybe little thirsty. I command her to get something to drink and get some rest. Good night and sweet dreams my love. The best part when two people truly love each other. Anytime I see older couples, I smile. They learned over the years how to handle life ups and downs.